Marriage is an Hard Work

How should married couples view themselves after marriage? You loved and said sweet words to each other then at first instance, when you knew yourselves. But now that you have settled down as husband and wife, none of you seems to say those sweet words anymore again to each other.

What could be the possible reasons? The answer to that, could be found on this article I have published; titled,

Marriage is an hard work.

Could it be that you have suddenly forgot yourself, remember in the early days when you knew yourselves, you were trying to cultivate the marriage, now that you have finally married and relax for the matured products of the marriage, you may not think about saying sweet words again to each other. Sometimes, you may be carried away to see those who are outside there as the most pretty and handsome instead; this kind of thoughts, can mar your marriage. You should be able to build a good friendship in your marriage and actually enjoy your marriage; start by applying the few workable steps below.

1. See yourselves as being the most important persons in life.
2. Instead of going outside there to spend your resources, rather bring what you get outside into the inside, remember, that the more resource you invest in your marriage, the more valuable the marriage becomes.
3. Remember, the people inside, your Husband your Wife your Children love and need you.
4. There is this scenario where people spent just little time with their families and spent most of their time building business empires, but at last, those business empires crashed down. At that point, they run the loss of ruining their families at the cost of the business.
5. Do not make that kind of mistake in your marriage, avoid it by all means.
6. Think of marriage as a life time investment that has to do with hard work because, you are a different person from the other person whereby you must to accept to live with forever in life.
7. You must try your best to know the things that you should do to please him or her, to keep that friendship in your marriage.
8. Finally, try all you can to bear each other weakness, remember that nobody is perfect, learn how to forgive and tell each other, that you are sorry first. That's it for now.